The VFA-Members
newslist is for sharing news and views with other VFA members. However,
in participating in the VFA-Members forum, please keep the following
points in mind regarding mutual respect for one another and try to live
up to this ideal when communicating with others on this forum.
All of us who have
received the benefit of some form of Hindu/Vedic wisdom hold a common
ideal in the eternal right of the individual to cherish and practice the
form of meditation that they have chosen. We are trying to embody this
Sanatana Dharma or Vasudaiva Kutumbakam vision in a world where harsh,
repressive and monolithic structures of religion or government, threaten
such a broad and universal view. Repression often begins with sincere
discipline and ends up as "absolute power corrupts absolutely."
So the Vedic Friends
Association was conceived as a non-authoritarian confederation of Vedic
thinkers who could demonstrate the model of unity in diversity in the
way we interact with one another and the world. We could as easily have
called this group the "Vedic Ambassadors Association", since our only
goal is to associate together effectively without the oppressive, overly
authoritative structures that are so damaging to diversity and
creativity.
Therefore, our
number one purpose is to softly and by friendly association inspire a
new kind of leader and role model, who has a vision of him or herself as
a global ambassador of the most universal principles of Sanatana Dharma
living. It is for this reason, that our conversations must not
degenerate into quarreling and offensive behavior on matters of
philosophy. The tension of philosophical debate can be vital and
invigorating to our cause since it is one of the great ideals of the
Vedic Rishis to test great ideas in the fire of loving and respectful
disputation. Unfortunately, due to our distance from one another and
the abrupt nature of email communication, it is all to easy for such
discussions to degenerate into hurtfulness or sectarianism. If we lived
close to one another and ate together, saw each others' faces and
families, it would be easier for us to treat each other with respect and
affection.
But even in these
awkward circumstances and under less than ideal conditions, we must
learn how to speak with one another and the world with the skills of a
diplomat, the truth of a sage and the vision of our global purpose. To
do this we need to learn new communication skills. It may help if you
think that your participation in this forum is an opportunity to be
mentored in the role of being a Vedic Ambassador. If we the founders
cannot teach that skill, and if a respect and receptivity to that
purpose does not remain present in everyone's mind, then our
conversations can easily descend into bickering and small mindedness.
Of course we believe
so much in all of you that we envision that once we set this premise of
being a Vedic Ambassador, each of you will come forth with important
views and qualities from which we will all learn and be inspired. This
is our true belief, that all the differing views of the "Vasudaiva
Kutumbakam" vision are a valuable spiritual biodiversity that we must
learn to promote together.
To do this we must
learn the difference between:
1. Our personal opinion
or viewpoint.
2. Our personal source
of spiritual inspiration.
3. Our own sampradaya,
guru or tradition.
4. The provable facts
of a material reality.
5. Our role as an
Ambassador of Vedic Cultural Vision.
Furthermore,
6. It's counter productive to make long didactic,
rambling presentations (or emails). It is better that one seriously
edit themselves (or find a good coach or editor) and learn to
control themselves.
7. When you speak, examine your intention. One
should learn to speak not for their own sense gratification or sense
of righteousness, making themselves right and others wrong. We
should learn to speak in a way that will inspire others.
8. Remember, most people are not inspired by
institutions and philosophical dictums, at least not intelligent
people. When it comes down to it, people are inspired by people,
by how they treat and speak to others. Our work has to be about
reaching out in friendship to offer knowledge and to create
understanding so people everywhere may live peacefully.
9. Many people have a limited attention span and
memory. When you make a presentation always remember - less is
more. If you make 2 or 3 good points that people will remember and
be inspired by when you are finished, consider yourself
successful.
10. Be concise and thought provoking. Sharing an
appropriate story is always a good way into people's hearts and
minds. Don't spoon feed people nor beat people over the head with
philosophy.
This VFA-Members
forum is not dedicated to promoting our personal views or the views of
our particular sampradaya or guru, even though these are inevitably
there in the background. Neither are we here to demean those of anyone
else. Here we are trying to find a common platform of action with each
other, from which we can demonstrate to the world the Vedic ideal of
Diversity in action. In addition, if we are successful in building
relationships of trust with one another, your "Vedic Friends" will
someday be you trusted allies in building a cohesive world based on the
values we all cherish.
In other words, we
should use this forum as an opportunity to develop valuable and
influential friends who are fellow Vedic Ambassadors aimed at
accomplishing real projects on our planet that embody our universal
Hindu/Vedic ideals and values. We are not here to debate with each
other but rather to find a way to work together toward our common goals,
in spite of and in appreciation of our acknowledged differences.
IN SUMMARY, the VFA
forum is dedicated to creating an unofficial global federation of Vedic
practitioners who are able to act as ambassadors of universal Hindu
/Vedic Culture based on the principle of friendly association. Please
adopt this as the tone and purpose of all your communications on this
forum. Take the time to speak respectfully to one another. Avoid
private language that is only used in your group or society. Greet one
another in a universal way, not as a way of enrolling the other person
in your view or jargon. Imagine that what you say here will be
broadcast on international television to billions of people and shape
the opinions of the world. View this forum as official training to be a
global representative and ambassador of all Hindu/Vedic people. Hold
that greater vision in all that you say and do in this VFA forum. Speak
the truth as you see it in the careful words of a world class diplomat
who is building support from diverse people to achieve important and
vital goals. Discuss the things you are doing in the world each day to
make the Sanatana Dharma culture more real in our troubled world.
Receive criticism from the elders of this forum with appreciation and
the knowledge that they are your friends and not your authorities.
WE who have
dedicated ourselves to VFA can only hope that you will be inspired and
attracted to behave in these ways. We believe in you all and bow at
your feet with respect and admiration. We see you as the potential
leaders of a new kind of world where the great values of the noble
Vedic/Hindu/Aryan culture stand again for what is good and true. We
believe that through this association we can relight the fire of a Hindu
Renaissance that enriches life on our planet and sets an example to
everyone that the diversity of Hindu culture can stand in respectful
unity in the face of the tremendous pressures of modern life. If we can
do this, others will believe it is possible. That is acharya or one who
teaches by their personal example. We of VFA believe that you can be
the leaders of a new world view that is not oppressive and monolithic
but one that is held together by spiritual friendship and mutual respect
based on the inspiration of Vedic culture.